5 months old

This is the only 5 month "couch" photo I have of Benjamin. I snapped it quickly before he had a meltdown and didn't get back to taking more photos later after he had calmed down. I don't recall why - perhaps Jasper woke up from his nap and then Benjamin had to go back down. It's a three ring circus nap schedule around here.

This photo is a little more personal ... definitely more "up close and personal."

Ok, had I actually started this post a couple of weeks ago as I had planned, I would be telling you that Benjamin is doing all sorts of fun things:

he's found his feet,

likes his jumpy seat,

Spontaneous dance parties erupt in the presence of a 2-year-old, despite how much Drew detests that sort of thing in musicals.

And, it appears both boys are looking to their father for dance moves. hmmm ...

Benjamin loves watching his brother do just about anything.

I don't recall what exactly was going on here. Jasper went through this phase where he was excited (over the moon so!) about Benjamin's feet. I don't remember exactly what he said, but it crescendoed into "... and Benjamin SMILE!" He was doing that here,

... and then he looks all demure, doesn't he?

Ah, such is life with a two-year-old.

I have no photos of this item, but Benjamin is rotating himself in bed. In the beginning, it's just 90 degrees.

He sits in his bumbo seat or exersaucer a fair amount, especially when there are not extra hands for holding him. What amazing inventions!


And he is always full of smiles

... and drool! Oh man is the faucet turned on! And beware ... everything goes in his mouth these days.

... everything goes in his mouth!

So, now that it's close to the end of the month and weeks are like lightyears of time in infancy development, I must inform you that Benjamin has not only found his feet but fallen in love with them,

He can spend so much time trying to eat his toes that his actual lunch, 2nd breakfast or 2nd lunch can get squeezed out of him. Spit-up happens, but he keeps smiling through it.

He rolls around on the floor with complete purpose. He has not yet found a good reason to roll onto his tummy, but he gets the job done without having to go that far.

He still finds watching Jasper to be the most fulfilling form of entertainment.

This has major benefits. As long as I can trust Jasper not to smother his brother when I leave them alone temporarily (which sometimes is an issue; he loves Benjamin so!), Benjamin is more likely than not to be satisfied just sitting/lying watching Jasper. He does not tire of this activity like he does of being in the jumpy seat or the exersaucer. The one drawback is at bedtime. When I need Benjamin to be winding down, and Jasper is still going strong, having them in close proximity has negative side effects. I cannot then get Benjamin settled down for sleep. I can't get him to fall into the "going to bed" routine. He's just too distracted.

I got him out of bed in the middle of the night this week (yes, we still have nighttime feedings) only to find him rotated 180 degrees from his initial position. It's always unsettling when I come upon a helpless infant and find him in a different position than where I left him. I have a moment of panic and think "how did you get there???"

Apart from the nighttime feedings and having not gone to bed well tonight, Benjamin is napping like a champ. Weissbluth is our friend. I'm sure I might trash talk him later at a weaker moment, but for right now we're flying high on consistently long naps (1.5-2hrs) and no crying when he goes down. I don't know what the "switch" was, but every week day last week his naps were "perfect." That is sort of ridiculous when I consider how much work was involved before.

I started this sleep training hoping for (1) sleeping through the night, (2) consistent bedtimes and awakenings and finally (3) ease and consistency of naps. Funny, but it appears to be working out in the reverse order. So much for my scientific plan. :)

Speaking of sleep, I need to get some myself. This kid wins me over every day with how lovable, happy and cute he is (not to mention chunkalicious). But sleep is good.